Our worlds on the planet

  Relationship goals. Some stories may be written in a different complimenting, loving, and fantasising manner, but the majority of lives are spent in a very ordinary way, doing ordinary things... And those ordinary things are done in a deliberate manner to ensure that those they love, receive the finest possible care... We continue to grow as an individual or even as a family , we also continue to grow and understand one another throughout our life span as partners. We    live with differences or enjoy the serenity of things together. Either we live with our differences or we appreciate the tranquilly of things together. We respect and compliment one other less yet rely on each other more, or the opposite is true. Whatever the situation, it necessitates emotional power in order to continue... it's a combination of a balanced meal plan that must be following the guidelines of a balanced diet piled high with all essentials to maintain the serenity of healthy living in all ...

 They left a lasting impression on me (AMMI ABBU)  On the 29th of June, 1997, Ammi, it has been 24 years since you left us, April 28th, 2000. It's been 21 years since you left us Abbu, and I am still moving forward ... Ammi abbu, it was difficult for me to cope with the anguish that had occurred in my heart when you left us, and I bear this pain with grace. This is something I have to deal with on a daily basis...  I miss your presence in the items you bought for me, Abbu, a dinner  set that we went to acquire for me.  a tea set you two brought back from Hajj for me. My blanket reminds me of you two every night.  I don't have a wardrobe or closet to open with your belonging and miss your presence. However, I recall the perfectly folded shirts and the neatly kept garments and accessories. Your Itter (perfume), rosary, and several Topi (hats) in a closet are no longer waiting for you to appear at any moment, Abbu.  From Fajr prayers in the morning to Asr...

 Reflect on the trials and tribulations that life has thrown our way. All of the pebbles, stones, and boulders thrown at us as life's trials and problems. Each one has a unique narrative to tell and a unique trip to take. We witness a history of our life's course when we stroll through ourselves to those gravel roads. Each of them has a narrative to tell, a storey of emotions, trauma, grief, and anguish.  We are not alone; everyone of us has our own world and novel to write. We don't have much to erase but what we do have is each other to shape.  Every stone, pebble, and rock thrown to destroy or damage something, has essentially reenacted, recreated, or rewritten something in order to mould us. Now, how we wish to shape ourselves is determined by our resilience, dependability, strength, and confidence.  I believe the hurdles and problems are like building blocks that can be used to view through another door that opens when one shuts if we learn how to place them exa...

 Fall Season  When the leaves start to fall in Autumn, we notice a change, a shift in the season, and a full series of transformations in the soil, leaves, and the weather itself. We appreciate not only the beauty it creates over time, but also the fortitude and struggle it takes to recover. When the atmosphere becomes foggy, icy, and muddy during the course, we are taught to remain subtle; we have all that harvest and gorgeous colours to tell us that things aren't over, but are reconnecting, and reviving when given space and time. Nothing dies; everything evolves and regenerates; all we need is the fortitude and ability to reconnect and renew. This cycle was aided greatly by our belief in ourselves.  How can a spirit be rusted, a body be flimsy, and a mind be foggy? Changing one's perspective and looking at things from a different perspective can have a long-term positive impact.

 Love is not in the air,  It is out of the air It requires Oxygen Intubation would make it still, To find out who is out there for real It has been so suffocated lately  It has been so dry and itchy In the alure road of driven imagination It all about the life and aspiration

 We get so caught up in counting the stars that we don't realise we've already lost the moon. We become engrossed in the idea of BIG. "IFS" of our ties and relationships. Everything around us appears to be and feels like a gigantic lie. Our erratic and destructive thought process becomes toxic, slowly consuming not only ourselves but also our loved ones. People go through good and bad times, but when they go through the darkest periods and face a breach of trust, it cuts deeper and harder than anything else. A person's only gift to himself or herself is a quest to  re-establish trust.